May All Good Things Find You And Stay With You

May all good things find you, follow you, embrace you and remain with you. And everything else had to pass you by. May you face challenges in your life, if only to learn something.

May you take ownership of every thing you learn and give shape to every stone on your path. May you put the dot over all the i’s and the line over every single T. May you stumble and fall. May all difficult times just be a transition to a fresh start with new opportunities. May you have the chance to grow and live.

May you be aware of all the good and all the bad. May you learn from your experiences that everything good in life can cut itself.  That it is better to live in excitement and to look towards the horizon. That the best way to seek security is to fear the mediocre.

May everything in your life flow smoothly, even if it can sometimes be short on time. May you always, somehow, get the chance to go back to the beginning and do it all over again. May your achievements deserve a celebration and your mistakes get a second chance.

Remember to embrace your shadows and demons as well. Being sad is also useful, because it helps you both to express and appreciate your desires and needs. Also remember that it is possible to play on teams with your anger.

Let no one punish you for your sensitivity, and remember that crying does not mean you are weak. Sensitive communication  requires honesty. If you suppress instead of expressing your feelings, it can cost you dearly. Realize that sensitivity is a strength, because living from the heart is what makes you unique and real.

Reject all absolute truths, and avoid using words like always, never or no one to say anything categorical. Try to understand that life is a rainbow. No one benefits from seeing life in black and white.

Do not forget that love does not beg. It is not love if you have to ask for it. Remember that many people are living in destructive relationships these days, and you need to consider what your relationships are contributing to your life.

It is important who contributes something in your life and that no one really has a complete lack of time. By all means remember that if you do not notice any interest from anyone, then you are free to distance yourself from them.  Do not feel guilty for wanting this.

Do not forget that resilience, self-control and self-confidence  are three of the most important psychological abilities you can develop. Do not give up, give yourself some space, and say no when necessary.

Do not be afraid if you want to be alone. Do not feel guilty if you do not enjoy talking or socializing. Accept that we all hold a place in the soul just for ourselves. This is not a bad thing, but something that is incredibly necessary and uplifting. Understand and respect that when others do the same.

Find support on the shoulders of your loved ones, so that all fears melt away when they give you a hug. Remember that some places are not on the map. They are found in our homes, in the arms of those we love and who love us. The same people who help us write our own story.

Do not be sad when you remember people who decided to travel. Remembering them only shows that you have memories and a life. Appreciate your memories, your qualities and your health. Remember that in a few years, these things will be very important.

Do not trust anyone who takes you away from yourself, your desires and your ambitions. Weave your own life according to the rhythm of the clock, and do not forget that life goes on. It is more important to live it now than to make new plans.

Above all, love with all your might. Do it not just halfway or well enough, but with all your strength. Love others, love life and love yourself. Do not lose yourself due to unimportant things. Give life shape and meaning. Remember that every minute counts and that you are able to fly much higher than you already do.